In 1970 I placed an ad in
Horse and Rider magazine's pen pal section, and thus began a lifelong friendship with Sue Seese, a girl who responded to my request for a pen pal.
I'll write more about her in another post, but this morning I was reminded of our enduring, forty-four year friendship when I was getting ready for church.
I pulled this out to put in my hair. And smiled.
In 1974, after four years of near-weekly correspondence, I had flown out to California to meet Sue. What a time we had together! We rode horses (how many people can say they've ridden a horse that was owned by Gilligan of the TV show,
Gilligan's Island? I can, thanks to Sue!), went to the beach, and showed Sue's horse, Storm, at a local horse show. (I still have the ribbon I won up in my office.)
A highlight of the trip was visiting Sue's silversmith, the man who created beautiful pieces of silver for saddles and bridles. I remember walking around the silversmith's workroom, amazed at the gleaming, handcrafted sterling silver pieces that were offered for sale. I couldn't afford any of them, but I sure could appreciate their beauty and craftsmanship!
After Sue finished paying for the silver she'd had put on Storm's bridle, the silversmith walked over to me and held something out. "Here's a souvenir of California," he said with a smile. And in his hand was the sterling silver barrette.
A gift for me. And one I have come to cherish as time has passed.
I keep the barrette polished and wear it fairly often. It was such a thoughtful gift and remains a souvenir of the friendship Sue and I still share all these years later.
A friendship forged through a mutual love of horses.